Morning! I had mentioned I was going to start a series once a week (or two) where I pick a topic that’s on top of mind, and open up a conversation with you on how I am feeling about a particular subject. I have several topics that I would love to open up the floor to and look forward to interacting and engaging with you, on a more personal level, a bit of a departure from beautiful interiors and designs! Good to change things up a bit and that’s one of my goals for 2025, thinking, doing and creating out of the box.
Because I don’t have pictures that necessarily correlate with this post, I am just insert pretty pictures that add a little eye candy:)
So, today’s post feels a little personal, and I think it’s one that might strike a chord with many of us—perhaps even divide us a bit. I’m putting myself out there to share something I’ve been reflecting on lately.I recently had a big birthday—and when I say big, I mean BIG. I turned 60. Even now, I find it hard to say those words: I’m 60 years old. Honestly, it still doesn’t feel real.
At first, it didn’t fully sink in. My birthday week was filled with wonderful mini celebrations with family and friends—a whirlwind of love, laughter, and fun. I was so caught up in the joy of it all that I didn’t have time to really process the number. But over the past week, the gravity of 60 has hit me like a ton of bricks.
I want to be clear: I feel incredibly fortunate to be here, to celebrate another year around the sun, to have my amazing family and close friends by my side, and to be in good health. I know not everyone gets to say that, and I don’t take it for granted—not for one second.
But here’s the thing: Inside, I feel like I’m 40. Truly! I have a high energy level, constantly have new ideas running through my head, and still believe I can tackle big dreams—whether that’s creating a clothing line, writing a screenplay, or even buying a ranch in Montana (been on our bucket list for years, probably will never happen but maybe rent one for a summer). Honestly, nothing feels off-limits. Sure, my riding and skiing days might be behind me, but just about everything else still feels possible.
I believe that positivity is a huge part of living well as we age, and keeping that belief alive is so important. I feel so grateful to be in a phase of life where I get to enjoy my family in new ways. My three sons are my greatest joy, and now, as many of you know, one of them is married and has given us the sweetest gift of all, little Philip.
Philip has brought so much light and happiness into our lives. My husband and I light up like rays of sunshine whenever we see him. He’s enriched our lives in ways I can’t even express. That said, I’m still getting used to the word grandmother. I accept that now I am a grandmother—because the joy far outweighs the label.
I know that as time marches on, I’ll come to terms with this new decade. I’ll embrace it and (hopefully) defy the odds by showing that life at 60 can still be full of adventure, dreams, and possibilities. After all, when many of my older friends would comment on their age, I would always says “it’s just a number” so now it’s time for me to practice what I preach!
I’m curious: How do you feel about milestone birthdays? Do they hit you as hard as this one has hit me, or do you take them in stride? I’d love to hear your thoughts, advice, or even your favorite ways to celebrate this phase of life.
Thanks for letting me share so openly today. Wishing you all a wonderful day filled with positivity and light! Until next time….
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I will turn 68 later this year; it does take time to come to terms with your own age; but then the reality is I am still alive, I feel wonderful, I’m wiser today and I have so many blessings; I cannot complain. If we don’t age, that means we’ve died young. I think of my husband’s sister who died at age 22 and if alive now, would be 75 this year. She missed so much of life. She never had the opportunity to have children or become a grandmother, never had the opportunity to see age 25, 30, 40, 50 or 60. So it puts another birthday into perspective, and for that I am grateful. Happy Birthday to you….enjoy each day of life! <3
Tina,
Aging has its challenges!!! I remember looking in the mirror when my hair had completely turned gray and said, “ Who’s that?” I’m 72 and now look past all the obvious physical changes and enjoy days of gratitude! I do think intentional living is very important especially after you enter retirement( which is a long ways off for you). Our generation hopefully will live longer with a good quality of life in our later years. Grandkids and younger people surrounding us is a big motivator to take care of ourselves to enjoy our time on earth. You only live once!!!
I had no problem turning 60 three years ago. Or at any other milestone birthday. I find that keeping busy with the life I am so grateful for doesn’t allow me to reflect on these passings too much. I try to live as if each day were my last in terms of my faith and how I treat others. I cannot argue with God’s will so I just don’t waste precious time letting it get me down. But that’s just me!☺️
I am 83 and like you, I feel like I’m 40. My body tells I’m not, I have physical limitations, but I have a full, active life and thank God everyday for my many blessings. Turning 80 was surreal, but having friends from their early 60’s to their early 90’s active and enjoying life, 83 is just a number.
Oh my gosh! Yes! I feel the same way. My 67 year old body has a 35 year old spirit living in it! My mother who passed away at 92, always said that she was 30 inside!
We too have grand children and I do believe they keep us young. But even for those who don’t have them, rising each day to purpose and a new adventure ( that could be going to the grocery store), I think we have to motivate ourselves to see what possibilities lay ahead… you never know… the Best may be yet to come 💖
Thank you for sharing your feelings about aging. You are not alone! I turned 70 this past year, and I will admit that number was a bit harder to take than previous milestone birthdays. There has been a shift in my thinking, how I want to live in my home, provide for my children and grandchildren ‘s future, etc. But like you, I am so grateful for life, health, family and home (the latter particularly since living in SoCal with the fires) I make sure I stay busy (thank you grandchildren!), exercise, and try to eat healthy. I have followed you for many years and your posts always help to make the day even better!
I am turning 71 yrs this April. I will say that 70 was the big number for me. The rest of them did not bother me at all. Like you, I feel younger than I am. However, most of my close friends (through tennis) are 10 to 30 years younger and that is a constant reminder of what will never be again for me. I have more physical problems now than before but I do my best to take care of them and stay ahead of it. Grandchildren are the driving force in our lives and I appreciate every new day more than ever. You will come to accept this new age eventually and continue to enjoy life because the alternative is simply unacceptable!
Age never bothered me…… not when I turned 50, 60 and not even 70. But when I hit 80 last year, it was a little bit of a shock! Except for arthritis, I feel great and feel younger than what I am. I look at it this way…..life is a besting. So many people don’t make it to a ripe old age. Enjoy your age no matter what and celebrate. You’ve earned it.
I get what you’re saying totally!! I was 59 when I became a grandmother for the first time. I was so stunned when I was told that I just sat there not saying a word, my mind whirling “how is this possible?”. “I’m the baby (youngest of 4 daughters) and everyone called me baby”. Grandmother? The silence was deafening! Then my daughter said what do you want to be called and she proceeded to give me all all the words for grandmother and I said why can’t they call me Elizabeth? lol. Fast forward 10 years (yikes) and I can honesty say I have the most loving, considerate, sweetest, most generous grandson. He and I go for lunch regularly and he loves everything I make for him. I became a grandmother again last December and received the news with joy!
I can’t believe I’m 69!!! That’s just freaking me out!
I get what you’re saying. However, I didn’t have time to feel anything about turning 60 as my husband had open heart surgery so I was focused on his recovery. I’m now 67, and 70 sounds so much older, so that may hit me harder, although I will be thrilled and grateful if I make it to that age. You are so lucky to have the energy still. My energy level is not what I’d like, but I’m always looking for ways to improve. I too feel mentally much younger, but I also love the differences as I age: more wisdom, more accepting of my and others mistakes, more confidence. And I’m still waiting for a grandchild, so I want to keep sharp mentally and physically for that!
Love this new series!
I turned 55 last month and for the first time, started feeling “my age”. Waking up in the morning, had a few aches and pains until I get my body moving. I am super active- work out 3 x a week and do Pilates 2x a week. I think the idea of “older” now is 70 and up! I think 60 still seems young to me at least. I look at pictures of my parents at 60 and what 60 looks like today on many people and people are a lot younger looking in general. Also people do much more to take care of themselves!
Tina, I have met you in person (the showhouse you did in Tenn where you were honored) and first of all , you are a beautiful woman and secondly you could really pass for late 40’s, early 50’s! Very young looking, maybe consider another one of these posts no what you do skincare wise?
Yes, you are right- age is a number. And there’s few things we cannot do so go and seize the day!
Last year was a milestone for me as well…80 years old…how shocking to read the “average life expectancy” for women to live is 80.2. Whoa! I’m on “borrowed time!!” ❤️
100% I do NOT feel like I thought 80 w/”feel.” I’ve “ordered some new” body parts arriving soon…so “watch me go!” As the saying goes…”everything old is new again”… Race ya!! ❤️ franki
72 here, I admit aging has it’s challenges.Recently read a quote, “Between now and dead is this the life you want to live” . So I am embracing that motto! I am off to Finland to see the beautiful northern lights, and to conquer my fear of the cold!
My DearTina,,,I had to chuckle when you said you had your 60th Birthday.. lol Wait until its your 86th Birthday!!!!!! And like you I am currenntly planning on buying three homes. renovating one (9000+) sq feet, Kitchen Bath updates on another anc build on a nearby Lake for weekends plus videotaping all and possibly reopening my Atchitectural Design Business. And of course I must reopen my long dorment Architect Design business and hire a design assistant/secretary.. Now add to that thinking also of a You Tube Channel under my new Brand Name. All my doctors tell me I am in remarkable health for my age and I am never, ever lonely or bored either just very busy.. My parents taught me age is only a number you can do whatever your hearts desires if you want to. So dear Tina onward and upward.. I doubt you will let age stop or hold you from your dreams!!!!
I am so impressed with your accomplishments. Congratulations on still feeling young enough to ‘go for it’ Good for you and this gives us all hope to go into our golden years with goals and fun times ahead. Thank you for the inspiration!
I think the hardest Birthday is 70.
It really drove home the point for me at least that I am on the downside of the mountain of life.
I try to embrace everyday and enjoy my family and hold them closer than ever.
I don’t feel 70 but reality is I am. So head held high and soar like an Eagle, well maybe a Pelican!😊😊😊😊
I just turned 70 and practice law full time after a long and varied career including 14 years as an administrative law judge. Not going to lie-70 has been tough and not just looking in the mirror although I do appear younger. It’s the realization that the good years are behind me. Many of our friends are beginning to have serious health challenges and I don’t fool myself into believing that I am immune. The economic effects of the pandemic have had an impact on our retirement plans and that saddens me. We just returned from a cruise during which it was evident that we just don’t have the stamina level we once did. The most significant impact, personally, was when I received a call offering to nominate me for a federal court position that would have been my dream job and the perfect capstone to my career. It is a 10 year appointment so, at 60, I would have been a shoo-in, but it is unrealistic to assume that I could work at that level of intensity until age 80. After a lifetime of sublimating my professional desires, notwithstanding my accomplishments, to the needs of my parents, husband, and sons, this disturbed me terribly. I also think the world we are entering now, from a political standpoint, is horrific and depressing-one in which the rule of law has literally no meaning and qualifications for public service are in the gutter. By nature, I am a glass half full gal but that hasn’t been the case since the election.
I became a grandmother at 61 and was not quite ready yet, but being a grandmother has changed my life for the best. Whenever I have a down time they have helped me through, along with my daughters. I will be approaching the next milestone in another year and half and dreading that. Hopefully they will help get me through. LOL. Happy Birthday!! Wish I was back there to 60!
Every milestone birthday has been a wrench starting with 40. I fled to Italy for my 50th and a cooking class in Florence to avoid another surprise birthday as happened at my 40th. My 60th was another bump in the road but then, at 62, along came our first grandchild and at 64, our second and last — both granddaughters who at 21 and 19 are our complete joy as is your Phillip. So do the math and I’m now 83. Ugh! However, I’ve survived a TIA at 61, breast cancer at 78 and COPD diagnosed almost 10 years ago. I’m still here and kicking and grateful for each day I’m given with my family, friends and my business which I continue to love as it brings me new contacts and new creative projects. Life is worth living every day with joy, with purpose, with gratitude regardless of the number of candles on the cake. Celebrate your birthday….60 is just the continuation of your fabulous life.
I am now 75! Since I turned 70, I wake up every day wondering how I got to be this age! Total shock! And I still feel 40 inside too. The big thing is that especially over the last year, I’ve had to recognize that I’m not 40 or 50 or even 60! I can’t do all the things I’ve always done or that I want to do. It’s a huge adjustment, one that I’m finding very difficult to manage. I still work full time at a bank where I’ve been employed for 39 years. It keeps my brain active and motivates me. Best wishes as you begin this next phase of your life. It can be just as good as those that came before.
I am now older than you. Because of various issues and experiences like serious health and the death of close family members, my outlook on life has changed. I never gave much thought to any of this before since health was never an issue in my family until recently and my parents lived healthy lives to ages 95 and 100. Now I am so grateful when I wake up and feel well. My only concerns are that my children experience good health also, are happy, prosperous, and develop deep faith. I enjoy them and my grandchildren tremendously and I thank God for the wonderful moments of life. I don’t let things bother me, and I try to be as helpful to my family as possible. I suppose I am a little more religious than I’ve been during busy years. I thank God every day.
Dear Tina, I turn 80 this spring which is a bigger shock to me than 60 is for you! I still feel 40 and am happy and healthy. Admittedly though, there are a few aches and pains that come with age. My life is filled with family, friends and fun. We have just built a beautiful new home and I have enjoyed decorating every inch of it, using many of your beautiful products too. When I retired from a corporate job I took up painting and have painted beautiful landscapes in many countries staying in small towns. We have rented a villa in Tuscany for family and friends for the “ really big” birthday. The women in my family lived well into their 90s remaining active and happy. I plan on doing the same!
I have a big milestone birthday coming up this weekend and I am not happy about it. It is 10 years more than your birthday! I am very lucky with good health and a wonderful husband and I feel more like 50. I have a twin sister so we can commiserate together with “how is this possible!” It has helped to start planning trips for the year already so I have something to look forward to. Plus, if there is some music/theater event that I would like to attend I am not putting it off until another time. Do it all now!
My birthdays are a nonevent for me but I will say when my baby turned 22 I wondered where the time went. Now I have two kids over 30 and two closing in. What the heck?
Well I totally understand! . I will be turning 65 in a few months and the word Medicare freaks me out! My husband and I married right out of high-school married now 47 years. We have three children and 23 grandchildren (3 or great grandchildren) They all live within 5 minutes! God has blessed us with a quiver of grandchildren! Sometimes I look in the mirror and think how did this happen! I do interior design as well for Senior Living 🤣 and they are beautiful inside and out. Their faith is strong, have many stories to tell and often full of spunk, they keep us motivated to take going on moving. The one thing I changed in my life at 60 was no more climbing on ladders!
Hi Tina, I have to say that I rarely think about how old I am. Most days I even forget because that is how little I care about the number, I have a friend who focuses on her age. She is a year older than I am and will often bring up her age and remind me of mine. She can’t do this or can’t do that because I’m…! No, I say you just put your mind to it and push through because the less you do the less you will do! To me, it is so silly to believe that since she is a certain age she must act and feel accordingly, which is beginning to define her.. She has friends that sympathize with her on that but I am not one of those. I am a cheerleader for soldiering on and pushing the bar higher. I act how I feel, which thank God is very healthy, strong, and young thinking. Now let me think and remember for you and this email that I am 78 years old!! Many times I have to recall my husband’s age and subtract two to remember mine. I have always been this way and it is I think what keeps me young. I believe the more you think about that number the more it will be detrimental to you. May I suggest that you celebrate your milestones because they are a blessing and then put them out of your mind? You said you feel 40 then BE 40! It’s okay to do that! Live for the day, not for the number. As they say you are only as old as you feel. Also, you do not have to look your age as many feel they do. My mom was my idol as I know yours was and probably still is. Mine passed at 96 and didn’t look or act a day over 80 at the time even throughout the illness she lived with in her last years. She also never thought about her age and so I believe that is the secret to a happy long life. Good luck putting that number away each year until you are forced to remember it at times. Best of luck!
In my early 60’s I felt , well I didn’t ‘feel’ 60. But another decade later the energy level drops. I get excited about decorating for holidays and have the dining room table with holiday foods. Then 75 hit, hard, the desire maybe there but not the old push. You have to accept it. Luckily , most of your friends are experiencing same. Enjoy your 60’s make everyday count.
Aside from the physical changes age is a matter of the mind. I’ve seen people who make themselves old before their time and others who live life like age is of no concern. As your reader Marge said in her comments, surround yourself with Grandkids and younger people. Young people invigorate you. Keep friends of your age who have a positive outlook and limit your time with friends who have a negative outlook. It can be catchy. Me I’m 73 and want to build a new house!
I turned 60 last year. Feel 27! My thoughts that bring joy to aging:
– Everyone gets to be young, not everyone gets to be old. So, embrace every year you’re lucky enough to have. Even towards older age
– grandchildren are the best compensation for aging! Rarely is someone a Grammie until they’re older. Win, win!
I turned 70 this year. I don’t know why, but 60 was harder for me, so I feel you! But if anyone had told me when I was youngr that I would look and feel this good, with lots of energy, strength in my body and mind, still working full time and actually starting a new career endeavor, I never would have believed them! I know others may see 70, but I just see me, and intend to keep going with the program as long as I can. My advice would be to continue to prioritize your health and well being, and a big part of that is to just be happy. Laugh! Enjoy! Surround yourself with love! Above all, express gratitude, whatever that looks like to you, whenever possible. Happy Birthday! Cheers to many more amazing years!
I turned 70 in December and threw a big party. When your birthday is 10 days before Christmas, it is always a bit of a joint celebration. Getting the house ready after a 6 year hiatus from entertaining (with Covid in there) was a real challenge. In my mind I am still 35. I have noticed while I am still physically fit, it takes me longer to bounce back after traveling, decorating, hosting a big event, etc.
I too am very grateful for every day and thoroughly enjoy my life. I wish back when I had the “beauty of youth” I had possessed the wisdom, gratitude and positive attitude I have now. I think we can achieve almost everything we wish to in this life…we just never have it all at once.
Happy birthday Tina – once the shock wears off it’s a great ride😁 Turning 60 bothered me a little but turning 70 was a blessing. I’m not concerned about “the Joneses” or what I’m supposed to wear “for my age” or any of the social media dictates. I’m alive, I’m healthy, I continue to look forward to each day. The only thing I don’t like at this age is – I’ve slowed down – but at least I haven’t stopped! At 69 my husband and I bought a new house and my only regret is not having more time to do everything I’d like to do to it and the garden – but I’ll enjoy what time I have with it.
I’m 86 and just returned from a cruise on the Nile and it was awesome. Don’t let your age define how you view yourself. The main thing is to keep an open mind, be interested in new challenges and take care of your health. I’m still learning and interested in visiting new places. Next month I’ll be visiting London and can’t wait. Good luck!
I believe that we all have “holdover” thoughts from previous generations. At one time, 60 was old, but not today. We have such easier lives from central heat to great healthcare and so much more. I am 68 and still going strong. I truly believe you are only as old as you want to be. I also believe it is time for age to be redefined. Instead of thoughts that were suited to our grandparents time, thoughts on age need to be upgraded to the 21st century.
When I turned 30, it was hard. I had three kids and what I thought was my forever house. I thought, what else is there? I am now 68 and boy there was so much more to come. Our three kids are married and we have 6 grandkids ages 1-12. Now as each new decade begins, I think what can I do with these next 10 years? I can’t wait to try new things and new adventures>
Tina, 60 is such a wonderful time, enjoy every minute! I just turned 73, and that feels wonderful too. 8 grandsons, and a little grandaughter, wonderful twins sons, and the sweetest daughter, I could ever dream of! Forget the number, embrace your wonderful life!!
I so understand how you are feeling turning a new chapter in your life. But as you stated, you are getting to experience one of the best experiences in your life, a new baby in the family. Wait until he runs to greet you or says “I love you” totally unprovoked!! My mother used to tell me with each new decade, “you’re going to love this decade it just keeps getting better “ especially if you are blessed with good health. What a sweet thing to tell me and so encouraging. I’m going to turn 80 this October and talk about it hitting you hard! I still feel like in my heart I’m 40 and can still turn a cartwheel!!! Probably not!!
I think it’s just the initial shock of turning a milestone, you will adjust and you will love being 60 and all the good things coming this decade. You are one sharp cookie Tina and you will always being trying to learn and have new experiences and that keeps you young! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!🎉
That little Phillip is just too cute.
Tina, you are so blessed and honestly I don’t think of60 being “old” at all. I am 51 and most of my friends are more your age and many of them run circles around me! Most have careers (very successful ones) exercise, travel, pursue all that life offers with freedom now that their kids are gone. Many say its their best decade yet. So I think you have many exciting chapters ahead! Also you look EXCEPTIONALLY young for your age, must be your moms good genes!
Agree and feel the same, I am 65 but feel like 45. I think having our dreams and goals and thinking we can still accomplish them is what keeps us young. Once we give that up, its over. I am constantly pushing forward. Plus, I don’t look 65, but around 50 (good laser work and creams). I have to remind myself that its OK for my kids to be as old as they are, and for me to become a Grandmother because THE NUMBER dictates it, not my inner feelings. I did not feel like I was ready to be a Grandmother and could not be called Grandma, Nana, Granny, etc. because of that feeling. I use a nickname and it seems to work well.
Some birthdays have bothered me more than others. I think it was what I was dealing with during the time of the birthday that played a role in how I felt. My own health issues, family member issues, financial issues, etc. all play a role in my state of mind. I will say that all of those things can change on a dime so I try my best to live in the moment and appreciate everything. One thing I am trying not to do is look up statistical life span numbers… drags me down everytime! Congrats on the birthday. Every day is a blessing❤️
It;s just a number……I’m 72 and in good health, put on my makeup everyday, eat right. walk, walk , walk, still married to a lovely man who still thinks I’m cute, our adult boys adore me and what else can you wish for? You find your rich whether money, friends, family and yes, my doggies make me a rich woman. Carpe Diem baby! Seize the day!
A woman came into my office with the old lady bouffant violet gray hair, 1980s eyeglasses, long floral dress with ortho shoes and anklets I thought to myself, she must be 10 years older than me…………….she was 10 years younger!!! Holy crap! I took a long look in the mirror and said, “Girl, you still got it!”
Hi Tina,
Yes, turning a BIG number can be a shocking fact as it was for me as well. GOD gave me life and to live it to the fullest. Life is an adventure and I just love being on an adventure. Dealing with up’s and down’s are just part of the adventure, but it’s one’s attitude on how we deal with life that seems most surprising to me. I CHOOSE to be happy, I CHOOSE to give and receive love. I still have the freedom of choice, and I have to remember that I physically can’t do the outdoor sports, climb mountains, white-water rafting any longer. But…I still get excited for what each day will bring of enjoyment for me. So, I get to garden, take care of my family, pets, travel abroad, and put my thoughts and dreams to paper. I am very at peace. For me, it’s all in the attitude of how I see my life going. In my mind, I feel like I am a young kid with alot of energy so at times I challenge myself to do more. Like a month ago in my garden I chopped down a tree with my chainsaw. Yes, I am very careful and I’ve done it for years so I know what to do to stay safe. My current age is 75 years young! And loving being alive! You too have a great attitude to live by and I believe you will live long and at peace. Remember, GOD gave us our pre-designed life.
ENJOY YOUR GLORIOUS SIXTY’s !! They may be the BEST decade of ALL !!
And embrace being “Grandmomma” because it brings such pure JOY to your life !! Age really is “just a number”, and you have everything needed for a happy, fulfilling, and purposeful life !! Congratulations, and I’m sending love to you & your family !! 💕
My 60 is a great age. I think women are really beautiful in their sixties. I am now 75 and remember well being with you at Tay’s house when I was a teenager and you were a little pretty girl who looked like a doll with blond curls. I loved seeing the picture of little Phillip and knowing he has a bit of Tay and Pa in him. They would be so proud of you and your family.
P.S. Sometimes I feel like am still 17! I still have so much to learn. I think in our hearts we never get old.
Thank you for sharing more on a personal note, I read through till the end. I just turned 50 this past summer. Honestly, can’t believe I’m here already at 50 years of age when I still remember so vividly 16, 20 and my 30’s. Thinking that the majority of my years are behind me, makes me pause and think. How will I live my life in the next 20-40 years? I have young emerging adults now that requires me to turn back the dial on parenting and more guiding which is sooooo darn difficult. Then to think, what will I do when they don’t need me as much. Will I venture more into what I love, Design? Will I work more on myself physically? Probably both! All of this comes with the new milestones we see because our seasons in life are changing too with our chronological age. I just have to say to myself, take one day at a time. God tells us not to worry about tomorrow. We sure should think about tomorrow but not worry about it. Not easy, but doable. So how do I do it? I embrace 50 even though I feel like I’m 30, love talking with young adults and having fun and sure trying really hard to defy the aging process. Dress with class but not too old looking, get the Botox if you have to and if it makes you feel better. Why not? Just be the best you can be! As I take one day at a time I trust in the One who gave me life! As I do, He will direct my life one day at a time. 😊
I just tuned 76 a few days ago. My husband will be 80 next month! How did that happen? I was 18 when I met my husband, he was 22. We are married 55 years.. In our minds we are in our 30’s but getting out of bed in the morning tells us we are old people!!
Every morning when I wake up I thank God for this new day.
Tina, you look amazing! Your active life style keeps you young as does your beautiful Grandson.. Life has no guarantee. Enjoy every moment.
Birthdays have never been a really big thing with me, Maybe b/c I have a Christmas B day and so much else is going on? Not sure b/c my kids are BIG Bday people! I love Mother’s Day best and Easter and of course, Christmas!
Anyway, as far as the milestone B days go, I really just try to not think of them, as I stay in shape, eat right (more or less) and I’m fairly active and generally enjoy life. My dogs have kept me younger, I think. Two furkids but sadly, now just one I did pick a cute “grandma name” as so many I know have. That helps but I ended up a young grandmother first time (I burned the candle at both ends with an older teen daughter and a new baby grand.) I am now up to three! but pretty sure that’s it. The final grands number!
It may help that I have an older husband. I think if he were my junior by any amount at all, age would bother me more!
I don’t do the spas or the treatments but practice decent skin care (try to!) and I think attitude is everything and my attitude is at LEAST 10-15 (20?) years younger than my chronological age. AT LEAST!
I hit the 75 mile stone and I must say I hate it!!! I don’t feel that old at all. I still think and act like I’m 40. There are some challenges, like various aches and pains that come with age, but basically I’m in great shape, exercise, eat well and I still love to shop both for my home and clothes! So many friends my age have stopped shopping because the they just don’t need things. for me I don’t need things either, but I still love nice things and it keeps me current in my looks and my home, and brings me joy. Just take care of yourself and you will have many more years of fun. It is just a number ,but we don’t have to like or act like the number!
Every birthday changes us in some way. I’m over 80. I think one of the challenges is that your mind, if you are lucky, remains young and you think you can do all the things you did at an earlier age. You can get away with it for a while but when you hit 80 you realize you have to slow down somewhat. After being multitasked for so long, that is the challenge for me. If you do one thing at a time life becomes less complicated. But, you have to keep reminding yourself. Best to take one day at a time and live life to the fullest, as you are able. Every age has its delights. Older, generally wiser. You can watch the younger people and enjoy how they tackle their challenges. Don’t fret. Just enjoy.
Oh, this post hit home for me! I am turning 60 in March and will be welcoming our first grandchild in August-I can’t wait! This milestone birthday has really hit me-like you I do not feel “this number” and feel very blessed to be here, healthy, surrounded with family, friends and a full life-never taken for granted. Go to Montana-one of the most most beautiful places and a favorite of mine! Enjoy this time of life and ALL that it has to offer!
You feel 40 because these days 60 is the new 40! 🤣 I turned 71 this year and feel 50. I think aging is different now and with maintaining our health and skin we don’t age as quickly physically. 70 was the hardest for me – just couldn’t believe it but it will drive you crazy to think about. It really is only a number and I was reminded that if I had my health and youthful-ish looks and I can still do what I want to do, I need to be grateful rather than complaining about where I am on the age scale. Of course, they’re right and I’m trying. But it’s hard! We just need to change our mindset, I guess.
I’m 62 and a breast cancer survivor. Every single day is a gift. I don’t feel a day over 35 in my head, but sometimes the body disagrees a little! I am grateful for each day and every birthday. I too, welcomed a first grandchild just 3 months ago and am welcoming our second in the spring. Life waits for no one. Live every day and love the people in your life. My grandmother lived till almost 99 and her secret was to keep moving! Happy big 60 to you! Onward!!
Turning 60 is a big one, but do reflect that as a new grandmother you are indeed so young. Thinking back to how we felt looking at how old we thought our grandmothers were. Every age is a blessing. To me, I think 35ish, but the mirror definitely sees someone else. Enjoy this journey and look back at all you have accomplished and the great triumphs that still await.
I was stressing about my big 60 last February. We had an exciting trip planned and I did a glow up and was all ready. It was fantastic and the next day I said, “ I don’t feel any different, I feel like forty!” So sixty must be the new forty!
All the best to you!
Tina, I also very recently had a milestone Birthday. I have 10 years on you . I turned 70. I feel the same way as you I feel 40 as well! I remember when I viewed 70 yr olds as OLD! Well I am like you I have to practice what I preach as well! It is just a number! I think the 60s and 70s are the new 40 and 50s Right! People are living much longer as long as we take care of ourselves. I think the secret is staying active. I have 2 sisters younger than me and I run circles around both of them. They sit all the time in their easy chair! I would loose my mind. I continue to work and do what I love to do. I decorated 12 houses this yr for Christmas. That’s it the secret no doubt is to stay busy and active. I hope this next yr brings you more joy and happiness than you can stand ! Enjoy that grandson he is so beautiful ! You will be 70 very quickly I promise! I always enjoy your posts and recipes. Especially the Seven On Sunday! Thank you for sharing this post! Liane From Nashville !
I turned 68 in December but I don’t know what that number feels like. I’ve never been concerned with getting older except I pray I stay healthy and active. I’m a positive and happy person and do whatever I like, which is shopping and decorating. I just say live every day like it’s your last but live for God on your journey.
Hold on to your hat and enjoy ! I found out I was going to be a grandmother on my 50th birthday and that baby is graduating high school in May. Time flies, I keep asking how I got to 68 so fast. Take care and stay healthy!
I turned 68 last year and it’s starting to sink in I will be 70 in a few years! It’s hard to wrap my head around the number, but I am blessed to be alive and enjoy our new granddaughter! As the saying goes” it’s a privilege denied by many”! When you think of friends or people you hear about who died in their 20’s,30’s 40’s 50’s, and didn’t get to see their children get married, be a grandparent or just experience all those years of living, it really makes me appreciate my birthday every year! Happy Birthday to you!
Tina,
I’m 70. I have never felt my age. I’m active but not fanatical. My parents ate what was in season and it was fresh, healthy and included red meat. It’s what myself husband and before married sons ate at home but not fanatical. I don’t drink alcohol or smoke. Keep using the same moisturizer, wash face with same soap and keep my hair clean, blonde and mid-length. Yes, I’m sad to see skiing and horseback riding out of my life.. I never thought I would not have a horse in my life.. Yet, my 6 grandchildren fill the void and light up my world.. I’d never say, trying to stay young, it’s just that I feel good.. Of course, aches and pains but don’t complain. Thank God for every moment.
Hi Tina,
When I was turning 60, I went around telling everyone that I was 59. I had a really hard time even saying I was 60. Then I adjusted, and like you became a grandmother. I was so busy with life, that my 60’s flew by. I think it was the fastest decade. Now I’m 70 and learning to embrace every day. I’m even busier with four grandchildren, my husband, travel, two homes and loving every bit of all of it. Things change, nothing stays the same, friendships come and go, but you just learn to love what matters most. Health, family, friends, and true love! Enjoy this special decade.
Hi Tina, don’t comment often but felt the need today! First, when I saw your instagram post about your “big birthday’ I was shocked that you are 60. You look much much younger. So there’s that. Plus you are a grandmother, a very young one. You have a lot to celebrate and be proud of, a thriving business, three grown kids, a grandchild, beautiful homes, your health. Life is good!
I am 58 and through hardships of others in my life, I have learned to be super mindful of every minute, hour, day I am given. We lost 3 friends and family members in the last year all too young. Talk about a wake up call. I mediate every morning for 10 minutes and keep a gratitude journal which I fill in most days. I have 2 kids, both in college and I am just finding myself again. I started working part time for a local interior design company and am loving it. I took up tennis and golf again. My husband and I vowed to take two big trips a year and lots of little weekend getaways in between.
Our biggest change is that we are selling our very large home where our kids were raised and bought a place in Jackson Hole and will downsize to a smaller home in the Atlanta area. We are so excited about this big lifestyle change and look forward to creating many good memories with our kids and their future families.
All this to say, no one is guaranteed tomorrow, next year or next year. We are merely passing through in this life. If we look at it that way, we tend to do things instead of talk about them. Sometimes we cannot do them right away but we can plan for them, and that alone is part of the fun. Our 2 house new lifestyle is something we have been planning for 8 years (once the twins left for college) and its finally happening. I am a big believer in manifestation. 60 in today’s world is young, and your energy appears to be that of most 30 year olds! Whatever you are doing, keep on doing..it’s working!
It’s nice to know you’re not alone. I’m 76 and just retired from my second career. Staging house’s! Keeping active is my answer to staying vital. Happy Birthday to you, stay healthy and happy and keep doing what you’re doing!.
Hello dearest Tina
Well I am with you all the way. I may be your latest ( and one of the most devoted) readers to share this birthday as I turned 60 only last weekend. Tina you look absolutely beautiful, so hopefully we are a fine vintage. I still cant believe I am 60 either, but can only say am truly grateful for my good health, and the many blessings I have in life.
It’s a life I had to gradually rebuild when I returned to England alone after living between here and Italy with my partner of many years, separating from him in my late 40s, 2012. Aside from losing a parent ( for me, my Dad ) having to start over at that stage was probably the only real challenge I have ever faced. It was around that time I started to read your blog Tina and words cannot express how grateful I was. You shared so much beauty, inspiration and positivity, you were a lifeline to me ( my darling friend you still are) I re-started my interior design and event floristry career and put all my love and focus into my home, family and friends. Always helped along by my creativity with flowers, gardening, fashion and probably my first love, music… gradually I got there. Adjusting to living alone wasnt easy, nor turning 50 especially not having had any children of my own. But I have 3 beautiful God children and am close to my brothers, whose grandchildren I share and love like my own.
I am more comfortable now that I can withstand change. I have come to understand this unconventional life has been a rare gift of opportunity to become the best version of myself through being happy with my time filled with people and pastimes I love. I enjoy my work and every part of our world of beautiful creativity. I go often and even alone to the theatre, cinema, opera and as many concerts as possible. From La Traviata to Justin Timberlake, I went to both in the last year.
I absolutely dont feel my age at all, probably I feel more like Im still 40. I may look older so Im thinking some fillers? but mostly I just eat very healthily, take a good 15 supplements a day, walk, dance, anything to keep active. I do try to dress nicely and wear make up and jewellery each day, somehow it makes me feel better.
Turning 60, I have to say that the anticipation of it being a life ‘deadline’ was hardest, and how to celebrate in the depth of an English winter. I decided to give a party in the summer ( and enjoying the planning with lots of your inspiration Tina)
I want it to be as fun, fabulous and glamorous as possible, a real celebration of life not just for me but to create wonderful memories for family and friends. So it’s going to be 60 and sparkling.
The best part of being older is being wiser and knowing you must make the most of every day. As your other reader put it so well ‘ carpe diem, baby’ I love that. I think your grandson is so gorgeous, little Philip. He will bring you more and more joy as time goes on Tina, as will all of your family. You will embrace this next decade together.
My Dad just used to say to me ‘ count your blessings’ so they are my words to live by
Sending fondest love
Sallyxxx
Happy Birthday Tina.
I recently turned 70. And I have been in denial every day since. I’m truly freaked out ! Having more years behind you then going forward is unsettling for me. In almost every way I’m the same person I’ve been for many many years. Same interest, still motivated, still making all kinds of plans for this or that. Currently in the middle of a home renovation. I don’t feel seventy. I’m told frequently that I look 10 years younger than I am. I too have three sons. They have given my husband and I 6 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter, Romelia. I look in her beautiful sweet 4-month-old face with amazment. I’m a great-grandmother …Wow ! The old saying, life is short, could not be truer. I tell my children all the time, soak in everyday, for this time in the future will be… the good old days !! I honestly don’t see a time when I will settle into this 70 thing. However, I guess I better start trying really hard, because time keeps moving forward.
I have a large clock in the hallway between the garage and the kitchen, so I see it multiple times a day. On the face of the clock, I had these words inscribed: “Some people are old at 18, and some are young at 90…time is a concept that humans created.”
I turned 74 just a week ago, and I’m still going strong. I own a marketing company, and this week, I received an offer that could boost its growth by 25%. Retirement isn’t on my radar—working and connecting with people keep me energized and youthful. To me, age is just a number.
Loved your post, Tina. I always say that biological age is more important than chronological age and since you feel like you’re 40, than that’s the age you have.
True, it’s time we practice what we preach about “age being just a number” and start celebrating our birthdays, period, not even mention a number.
I just turned 49 last week and the milestone being around the corner,
I also relate to the thoughts you shared. I’m also the mother of a 5 1/2 yrs old beautiful boy (our miracle baby) and the thought of being strong and around for him for many years probably keeps me young in spirit. I feel great and at least 10 yrs younger.
Happy Belated Birthday, Tina! Wishing you time for yourself and lots of energy and joy in 2025.
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Morning! I had mentioned I was going to start a series once a week (or two) where I pick a topic that’s on top of mind, and open up a conversation with you on how I am feeling about a particular subject. I have several topics that I would love to open up the floor to and look forward to interacting and engaging with you, on a more personal level, a bit of a departure from beautiful interiors and designs! Good to change things up a bit and that’s one of my goals for 2025, thinking, doing and creating out of the box.
Because I don’t have pictures that necessarily correlate with this post, I am just insert pretty pictures that add a little eye candy:)
So, today’s post feels a little personal, and I think it’s one that might strike a chord with many of us—perhaps even divide us a bit. I’m putting myself out there to share something I’ve been reflecting on lately.I recently had a big birthday—and when I say big, I mean BIG. I turned 60. Even now, I find it hard to say those words: I’m 60 years old. Honestly, it still doesn’t feel real.
At first, it didn’t fully sink in. My birthday week was filled with wonderful mini celebrations with family and friends—a whirlwind of love, laughter, and fun. I was so caught up in the joy of it all that I didn’t have time to really process the number. But over the past week, the gravity of 60 has hit me like a ton of bricks.
I want to be clear: I feel incredibly fortunate to be here, to celebrate another year around the sun, to have my amazing family and close friends by my side, and to be in good health. I know not everyone gets to say that, and I don’t take it for granted—not for one second.
But here’s the thing: Inside, I feel like I’m 40. Truly! I have a high energy level, constantly have new ideas running through my head, and still believe I can tackle big dreams—whether that’s creating a clothing line, writing a screenplay, or even buying a ranch in Montana (been on our bucket list for years, probably will never happen but maybe rent one for a summer). Honestly, nothing feels off-limits. Sure, my riding and skiing days might be behind me, but just about everything else still feels possible.
I believe that positivity is a huge part of living well as we age, and keeping that belief alive is so important. I feel so grateful to be in a phase of life where I get to enjoy my family in new ways. My three sons are my greatest joy, and now, as many of you know, one of them is married and has given us the sweetest gift of all, little Philip.
Philip has brought so much light and happiness into our lives. My husband and I light up like rays of sunshine whenever we see him. He’s enriched our lives in ways I can’t even express. That said, I’m still getting used to the word grandmother. I accept that now I am a grandmother—because the joy far outweighs the label.
I know that as time marches on, I’ll come to terms with this new decade. I’ll embrace it and (hopefully) defy the odds by showing that life at 60 can still be full of adventure, dreams, and possibilities. After all, when many of my older friends would comment on their age, I would always says “it’s just a number” so now it’s time for me to practice what I preach!
I’m curious: How do you feel about milestone birthdays? Do they hit you as hard as this one has hit me, or do you take them in stride? I’d love to hear your thoughts, advice, or even your favorite ways to celebrate this phase of life.
Thanks for letting me share so openly today. Wishing you all a wonderful day filled with positivity and light! Until next time….
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I will turn 68 later this year; it does take time to come to terms with your own age; but then the reality is I am still alive, I feel wonderful, I’m wiser today and I have so many blessings; I cannot complain. If we don’t age, that means we’ve died young. I think of my husband’s sister who died at age 22 and if alive now, would be 75 this year. She missed so much of life. She never had the opportunity to have children or become a grandmother, never had the opportunity to see age 25, 30, 40, 50 or 60. So it puts another birthday into perspective, and for that I am grateful. Happy Birthday to you….enjoy each day of life! <3
So wonderfully said 💚
Tina,
Aging has its challenges!!! I remember looking in the mirror when my hair had completely turned gray and said, “ Who’s that?” I’m 72 and now look past all the obvious physical changes and enjoy days of gratitude! I do think intentional living is very important especially after you enter retirement( which is a long ways off for you). Our generation hopefully will live longer with a good quality of life in our later years. Grandkids and younger people surrounding us is a big motivator to take care of ourselves to enjoy our time on earth. You only live once!!!
I had no problem turning 60 three years ago. Or at any other milestone birthday. I find that keeping busy with the life I am so grateful for doesn’t allow me to reflect on these passings too much. I try to live as if each day were my last in terms of my faith and how I treat others. I cannot argue with God’s will so I just don’t waste precious time letting it get me down. But that’s just me!☺️
I am 83 and like you, I feel like I’m 40. My body tells I’m not, I have physical limitations, but I have a full, active life and thank God everyday for my many blessings. Turning 80 was surreal, but having friends from their early 60’s to their early 90’s active and enjoying life, 83 is just a number.
What a lovely attitude! Your comment has helped me appreciate aging.
Thank you
Awwwhhh thanks so much!
Oh my gosh! Yes! I feel the same way. My 67 year old body has a 35 year old spirit living in it! My mother who passed away at 92, always said that she was 30 inside!
We too have grand children and I do believe they keep us young. But even for those who don’t have them, rising each day to purpose and a new adventure ( that could be going to the grocery store), I think we have to motivate ourselves to see what possibilities lay ahead… you never know… the Best may be yet to come 💖
Enjoy every moment! 81 here😳holy cow, how did that happen? Feel young and feel so blessed!
Thank you for sharing your feelings about aging. You are not alone! I turned 70 this past year, and I will admit that number was a bit harder to take than previous milestone birthdays. There has been a shift in my thinking, how I want to live in my home, provide for my children and grandchildren ‘s future, etc. But like you, I am so grateful for life, health, family and home (the latter particularly since living in SoCal with the fires) I make sure I stay busy (thank you grandchildren!), exercise, and try to eat healthy. I have followed you for many years and your posts always help to make the day even better!
I am turning 71 yrs this April. I will say that 70 was the big number for me. The rest of them did not bother me at all. Like you, I feel younger than I am. However, most of my close friends (through tennis) are 10 to 30 years younger and that is a constant reminder of what will never be again for me. I have more physical problems now than before but I do my best to take care of them and stay ahead of it. Grandchildren are the driving force in our lives and I appreciate every new day more than ever. You will come to accept this new age eventually and continue to enjoy life because the alternative is simply unacceptable!
I have seen photos of you, and you look great. Wear your age like a crown.
Age never bothered me…… not when I turned 50, 60 and not even 70. But when I hit 80 last year, it was a little bit of a shock! Except for arthritis, I feel great and feel younger than what I am. I look at it this way…..life is a besting. So many people don’t make it to a ripe old age. Enjoy your age no matter what and celebrate. You’ve earned it.
Consider the alternative… It won’t bother you as much! 🤣😊
I get what you’re saying totally!! I was 59 when I became a grandmother for the first time. I was so stunned when I was told that I just sat there not saying a word, my mind whirling “how is this possible?”. “I’m the baby (youngest of 4 daughters) and everyone called me baby”. Grandmother? The silence was deafening! Then my daughter said what do you want to be called and she proceeded to give me all all the words for grandmother and I said why can’t they call me Elizabeth? lol. Fast forward 10 years (yikes) and I can honesty say I have the most loving, considerate, sweetest, most generous grandson. He and I go for lunch regularly and he loves everything I make for him. I became a grandmother again last December and received the news with joy!
I can’t believe I’m 69!!! That’s just freaking me out!
I get what you’re saying. However, I didn’t have time to feel anything about turning 60 as my husband had open heart surgery so I was focused on his recovery. I’m now 67, and 70 sounds so much older, so that may hit me harder, although I will be thrilled and grateful if I make it to that age. You are so lucky to have the energy still. My energy level is not what I’d like, but I’m always looking for ways to improve. I too feel mentally much younger, but I also love the differences as I age: more wisdom, more accepting of my and others mistakes, more confidence. And I’m still waiting for a grandchild, so I want to keep sharp mentally and physically for that!
Love this new series!
I turned 55 last month and for the first time, started feeling “my age”. Waking up in the morning, had a few aches and pains until I get my body moving. I am super active- work out 3 x a week and do Pilates 2x a week. I think the idea of “older” now is 70 and up! I think 60 still seems young to me at least. I look at pictures of my parents at 60 and what 60 looks like today on many people and people are a lot younger looking in general. Also people do much more to take care of themselves!
Tina, I have met you in person (the showhouse you did in Tenn where you were honored) and first of all , you are a beautiful woman and secondly you could really pass for late 40’s, early 50’s! Very young looking, maybe consider another one of these posts no what you do skincare wise?
Yes, you are right- age is a number. And there’s few things we cannot do so go and seize the day!
Last year was a milestone for me as well…80 years old…how shocking to read the “average life expectancy” for women to live is 80.2. Whoa! I’m on “borrowed time!!” ❤️
100% I do NOT feel like I thought 80 w/”feel.” I’ve “ordered some new” body parts arriving soon…so “watch me go!” As the saying goes…”everything old is new again”… Race ya!! ❤️ franki
72 here, I admit aging has it’s challenges.Recently read a quote, “Between now and dead is this the life you want to live” . So I am embracing that motto! I am off to Finland to see the beautiful northern lights, and to conquer my fear of the cold!
My DearTina,,,I had to chuckle when you said you had your 60th Birthday.. lol Wait until its your 86th Birthday!!!!!! And like you I am currenntly planning on buying three homes. renovating one (9000+) sq feet, Kitchen Bath updates on another anc build on a nearby Lake for weekends plus videotaping all and possibly reopening my Atchitectural Design Business. And of course I must reopen my long dorment Architect Design business and hire a design assistant/secretary.. Now add to that thinking also of a You Tube Channel under my new Brand Name. All my doctors tell me I am in remarkable health for my age and I am never, ever lonely or bored either just very busy.. My parents taught me age is only a number you can do whatever your hearts desires if you want to. So dear Tina onward and upward.. I doubt you will let age stop or hold you from your dreams!!!!
I am so impressed with your accomplishments. Congratulations on still feeling young enough to ‘go for it’ Good for you and this gives us all hope to go into our golden years with goals and fun times ahead. Thank you for the inspiration!
I think the hardest Birthday is 70.
It really drove home the point for me at least that I am on the downside of the mountain of life.
I try to embrace everyday and enjoy my family and hold them closer than ever.
I don’t feel 70 but reality is I am. So head held high and soar like an Eagle, well maybe a Pelican!😊😊😊😊
I just turned 70 and practice law full time after a long and varied career including 14 years as an administrative law judge. Not going to lie-70 has been tough and not just looking in the mirror although I do appear younger. It’s the realization that the good years are behind me. Many of our friends are beginning to have serious health challenges and I don’t fool myself into believing that I am immune. The economic effects of the pandemic have had an impact on our retirement plans and that saddens me. We just returned from a cruise during which it was evident that we just don’t have the stamina level we once did. The most significant impact, personally, was when I received a call offering to nominate me for a federal court position that would have been my dream job and the perfect capstone to my career. It is a 10 year appointment so, at 60, I would have been a shoo-in, but it is unrealistic to assume that I could work at that level of intensity until age 80. After a lifetime of sublimating my professional desires, notwithstanding my accomplishments, to the needs of my parents, husband, and sons, this disturbed me terribly. I also think the world we are entering now, from a political standpoint, is horrific and depressing-one in which the rule of law has literally no meaning and qualifications for public service are in the gutter. By nature, I am a glass half full gal but that hasn’t been the case since the election.
I became a grandmother at 61 and was not quite ready yet, but being a grandmother has changed my life for the best. Whenever I have a down time they have helped me through, along with my daughters. I will be approaching the next milestone in another year and half and dreading that. Hopefully they will help get me through. LOL. Happy Birthday!! Wish I was back there to 60!
Every milestone birthday has been a wrench starting with 40. I fled to Italy for my 50th and a cooking class in Florence to avoid another surprise birthday as happened at my 40th. My 60th was another bump in the road but then, at 62, along came our first grandchild and at 64, our second and last — both granddaughters who at 21 and 19 are our complete joy as is your Phillip. So do the math and I’m now 83. Ugh! However, I’ve survived a TIA at 61, breast cancer at 78 and COPD diagnosed almost 10 years ago. I’m still here and kicking and grateful for each day I’m given with my family, friends and my business which I continue to love as it brings me new contacts and new creative projects. Life is worth living every day with joy, with purpose, with gratitude regardless of the number of candles on the cake. Celebrate your birthday….60 is just the continuation of your fabulous life.
I am now 75! Since I turned 70, I wake up every day wondering how I got to be this age! Total shock! And I still feel 40 inside too. The big thing is that especially over the last year, I’ve had to recognize that I’m not 40 or 50 or even 60! I can’t do all the things I’ve always done or that I want to do. It’s a huge adjustment, one that I’m finding very difficult to manage. I still work full time at a bank where I’ve been employed for 39 years. It keeps my brain active and motivates me. Best wishes as you begin this next phase of your life. It can be just as good as those that came before.
I am now older than you. Because of various issues and experiences like serious health and the death of close family members, my outlook on life has changed. I never gave much thought to any of this before since health was never an issue in my family until recently and my parents lived healthy lives to ages 95 and 100. Now I am so grateful when I wake up and feel well. My only concerns are that my children experience good health also, are happy, prosperous, and develop deep faith. I enjoy them and my grandchildren tremendously and I thank God for the wonderful moments of life. I don’t let things bother me, and I try to be as helpful to my family as possible. I suppose I am a little more religious than I’ve been during busy years. I thank God every day.
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Dear Tina, I turn 80 this spring which is a bigger shock to me than 60 is for you! I still feel 40 and am happy and healthy. Admittedly though, there are a few aches and pains that come with age. My life is filled with family, friends and fun. We have just built a beautiful new home and I have enjoyed decorating every inch of it, using many of your beautiful products too. When I retired from a corporate job I took up painting and have painted beautiful landscapes in many countries staying in small towns. We have rented a villa in Tuscany for family and friends for the “ really big” birthday. The women in my family lived well into their 90s remaining active and happy. I plan on doing the same!
I have a big milestone birthday coming up this weekend and I am not happy about it. It is 10 years more than your birthday! I am very lucky with good health and a wonderful husband and I feel more like 50. I have a twin sister so we can commiserate together with “how is this possible!” It has helped to start planning trips for the year already so I have something to look forward to. Plus, if there is some music/theater event that I would like to attend I am not putting it off until another time. Do it all now!
My birthdays are a nonevent for me but I will say when my baby turned 22 I wondered where the time went. Now I have two kids over 30 and two closing in. What the heck?
Tina,
Well I totally understand! . I will be turning 65 in a few months and the word Medicare freaks me out! My husband and I married right out of high-school married now 47 years. We have three children and 23 grandchildren (3 or great grandchildren) They all live within 5 minutes! God has blessed us with a quiver of grandchildren! Sometimes I look in the mirror and think how did this happen! I do interior design as well for Senior Living 🤣 and they are beautiful inside and out. Their faith is strong, have many stories to tell and often full of spunk, they keep us motivated to take going on moving. The one thing I changed in my life at 60 was no more climbing on ladders!
Hi Tina, I have to say that I rarely think about how old I am. Most days I even forget because that is how little I care about the number, I have a friend who focuses on her age. She is a year older than I am and will often bring up her age and remind me of mine. She can’t do this or can’t do that because I’m…! No, I say you just put your mind to it and push through because the less you do the less you will do! To me, it is so silly to believe that since she is a certain age she must act and feel accordingly, which is beginning to define her.. She has friends that sympathize with her on that but I am not one of those. I am a cheerleader for soldiering on and pushing the bar higher. I act how I feel, which thank God is very healthy, strong, and young thinking. Now let me think and remember for you and this email that I am 78 years old!! Many times I have to recall my husband’s age and subtract two to remember mine. I have always been this way and it is I think what keeps me young. I believe the more you think about that number the more it will be detrimental to you. May I suggest that you celebrate your milestones because they are a blessing and then put them out of your mind? You said you feel 40 then BE 40! It’s okay to do that! Live for the day, not for the number. As they say you are only as old as you feel. Also, you do not have to look your age as many feel they do. My mom was my idol as I know yours was and probably still is. Mine passed at 96 and didn’t look or act a day over 80 at the time even throughout the illness she lived with in her last years. She also never thought about her age and so I believe that is the secret to a happy long life. Good luck putting that number away each year until you are forced to remember it at times. Best of luck!
In my early 60’s I felt , well I didn’t ‘feel’ 60. But another decade later the energy level drops. I get excited about decorating for holidays and have the dining room table with holiday foods. Then 75 hit, hard, the desire maybe there but not the old push. You have to accept it. Luckily , most of your friends are experiencing same. Enjoy your 60’s make everyday count.
Aside from the physical changes age is a matter of the mind. I’ve seen people who make themselves old before their time and others who live life like age is of no concern. As your reader Marge said in her comments, surround yourself with Grandkids and younger people. Young people invigorate you. Keep friends of your age who have a positive outlook and limit your time with friends who have a negative outlook. It can be catchy. Me I’m 73 and want to build a new house!
I turned 60 last year. Feel 27! My thoughts that bring joy to aging:
– Everyone gets to be young, not everyone gets to be old. So, embrace every year you’re lucky enough to have. Even towards older age
– grandchildren are the best compensation for aging! Rarely is someone a Grammie until they’re older. Win, win!
I turned 70 this year. I don’t know why, but 60 was harder for me, so I feel you! But if anyone had told me when I was youngr that I would look and feel this good, with lots of energy, strength in my body and mind, still working full time and actually starting a new career endeavor, I never would have believed them! I know others may see 70, but I just see me, and intend to keep going with the program as long as I can. My advice would be to continue to prioritize your health and well being, and a big part of that is to just be happy. Laugh! Enjoy! Surround yourself with love! Above all, express gratitude, whatever that looks like to you, whenever possible. Happy Birthday! Cheers to many more amazing years!
I turned 70 in December and threw a big party. When your birthday is 10 days before Christmas, it is always a bit of a joint celebration. Getting the house ready after a 6 year hiatus from entertaining (with Covid in there) was a real challenge. In my mind I am still 35. I have noticed while I am still physically fit, it takes me longer to bounce back after traveling, decorating, hosting a big event, etc.
I too am very grateful for every day and thoroughly enjoy my life. I wish back when I had the “beauty of youth” I had possessed the wisdom, gratitude and positive attitude I have now. I think we can achieve almost everything we wish to in this life…we just never have it all at once.
Happy birthday Tina – once the shock wears off it’s a great ride😁 Turning 60 bothered me a little but turning 70 was a blessing. I’m not concerned about “the Joneses” or what I’m supposed to wear “for my age” or any of the social media dictates. I’m alive, I’m healthy, I continue to look forward to each day. The only thing I don’t like at this age is – I’ve slowed down – but at least I haven’t stopped! At 69 my husband and I bought a new house and my only regret is not having more time to do everything I’d like to do to it and the garden – but I’ll enjoy what time I have with it.
I’m 86 and just returned from a cruise on the Nile and it was awesome. Don’t let your age define how you view yourself. The main thing is to keep an open mind, be interested in new challenges and take care of your health. I’m still learning and interested in visiting new places. Next month I’ll be visiting London and can’t wait. Good luck!
I believe that we all have “holdover” thoughts from previous generations. At one time, 60 was old, but not today. We have such easier lives from central heat to great healthcare and so much more. I am 68 and still going strong. I truly believe you are only as old as you want to be. I also believe it is time for age to be redefined. Instead of thoughts that were suited to our grandparents time, thoughts on age need to be upgraded to the 21st century.
When I turned 30, it was hard. I had three kids and what I thought was my forever house. I thought, what else is there? I am now 68 and boy there was so much more to come. Our three kids are married and we have 6 grandkids ages 1-12. Now as each new decade begins, I think what can I do with these next 10 years? I can’t wait to try new things and new adventures>
Tina, 60 is such a wonderful time, enjoy every minute! I just turned 73, and that feels wonderful too. 8 grandsons, and a little grandaughter, wonderful twins sons, and the sweetest daughter, I could ever dream of! Forget the number, embrace your wonderful life!!
I so understand how you are feeling turning a new chapter in your life. But as you stated, you are getting to experience one of the best experiences in your life, a new baby in the family. Wait until he runs to greet you or says “I love you” totally unprovoked!! My mother used to tell me with each new decade, “you’re going to love this decade it just keeps getting better “ especially if you are blessed with good health. What a sweet thing to tell me and so encouraging. I’m going to turn 80 this October and talk about it hitting you hard! I still feel like in my heart I’m 40 and can still turn a cartwheel!!! Probably not!!
I think it’s just the initial shock of turning a milestone, you will adjust and you will love being 60 and all the good things coming this decade. You are one sharp cookie Tina and you will always being trying to learn and have new experiences and that keeps you young! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!🎉
That little Phillip is just too cute.
Tina, you are so blessed and honestly I don’t think of60 being “old” at all. I am 51 and most of my friends are more your age and many of them run circles around me! Most have careers (very successful ones) exercise, travel, pursue all that life offers with freedom now that their kids are gone. Many say its their best decade yet. So I think you have many exciting chapters ahead! Also you look EXCEPTIONALLY young for your age, must be your moms good genes!
Agree and feel the same, I am 65 but feel like 45. I think having our dreams and goals and thinking we can still accomplish them is what keeps us young. Once we give that up, its over. I am constantly pushing forward. Plus, I don’t look 65, but around 50 (good laser work and creams). I have to remind myself that its OK for my kids to be as old as they are, and for me to become a Grandmother because THE NUMBER dictates it, not my inner feelings. I did not feel like I was ready to be a Grandmother and could not be called Grandma, Nana, Granny, etc. because of that feeling. I use a nickname and it seems to work well.
Some birthdays have bothered me more than others. I think it was what I was dealing with during the time of the birthday that played a role in how I felt. My own health issues, family member issues, financial issues, etc. all play a role in my state of mind. I will say that all of those things can change on a dime so I try my best to live in the moment and appreciate everything. One thing I am trying not to do is look up statistical life span numbers… drags me down everytime! Congrats on the birthday. Every day is a blessing❤️
It;s just a number……I’m 72 and in good health, put on my makeup everyday, eat right. walk, walk , walk, still married to a lovely man who still thinks I’m cute, our adult boys adore me and what else can you wish for? You find your rich whether money, friends, family and yes, my doggies make me a rich woman. Carpe Diem baby! Seize the day!
A woman came into my office with the old lady bouffant violet gray hair, 1980s eyeglasses, long floral dress with ortho shoes and anklets I thought to myself, she must be 10 years older than me…………….she was 10 years younger!!! Holy crap! I took a long look in the mirror and said, “Girl, you still got it!”
Hi Tina,
Yes, turning a BIG number can be a shocking fact as it was for me as well. GOD gave me life and to live it to the fullest. Life is an adventure and I just love being on an adventure. Dealing with up’s and down’s are just part of the adventure, but it’s one’s attitude on how we deal with life that seems most surprising to me. I CHOOSE to be happy, I CHOOSE to give and receive love. I still have the freedom of choice, and I have to remember that I physically can’t do the outdoor sports, climb mountains, white-water rafting any longer. But…I still get excited for what each day will bring of enjoyment for me. So, I get to garden, take care of my family, pets, travel abroad, and put my thoughts and dreams to paper. I am very at peace. For me, it’s all in the attitude of how I see my life going. In my mind, I feel like I am a young kid with alot of energy so at times I challenge myself to do more. Like a month ago in my garden I chopped down a tree with my chainsaw. Yes, I am very careful and I’ve done it for years so I know what to do to stay safe. My current age is 75 years young! And loving being alive! You too have a great attitude to live by and I believe you will live long and at peace. Remember, GOD gave us our pre-designed life.
ENJOY YOUR GLORIOUS SIXTY’s !! They may be the BEST decade of ALL !!
And embrace being “Grandmomma” because it brings such pure JOY to your life !! Age really is “just a number”, and you have everything needed for a happy, fulfilling, and purposeful life !! Congratulations, and I’m sending love to you & your family !! 💕
My 60 is a great age. I think women are really beautiful in their sixties. I am now 75 and remember well being with you at Tay’s house when I was a teenager and you were a little pretty girl who looked like a doll with blond curls. I loved seeing the picture of little Phillip and knowing he has a bit of Tay and Pa in him. They would be so proud of you and your family.
P.S. Sometimes I feel like am still 17! I still have so much to learn. I think in our hearts we never get old.
Thank you for sharing more on a personal note, I read through till the end. I just turned 50 this past summer. Honestly, can’t believe I’m here already at 50 years of age when I still remember so vividly 16, 20 and my 30’s. Thinking that the majority of my years are behind me, makes me pause and think. How will I live my life in the next 20-40 years? I have young emerging adults now that requires me to turn back the dial on parenting and more guiding which is sooooo darn difficult. Then to think, what will I do when they don’t need me as much. Will I venture more into what I love, Design? Will I work more on myself physically? Probably both! All of this comes with the new milestones we see because our seasons in life are changing too with our chronological age. I just have to say to myself, take one day at a time. God tells us not to worry about tomorrow. We sure should think about tomorrow but not worry about it. Not easy, but doable. So how do I do it? I embrace 50 even though I feel like I’m 30, love talking with young adults and having fun and sure trying really hard to defy the aging process. Dress with class but not too old looking, get the Botox if you have to and if it makes you feel better. Why not? Just be the best you can be! As I take one day at a time I trust in the One who gave me life! As I do, He will direct my life one day at a time. 😊
I just tuned 76 a few days ago. My husband will be 80 next month! How did that happen? I was 18 when I met my husband, he was 22. We are married 55 years.. In our minds we are in our 30’s but getting out of bed in the morning tells us we are old people!!
Every morning when I wake up I thank God for this new day.
Tina, you look amazing! Your active life style keeps you young as does your beautiful Grandson.. Life has no guarantee. Enjoy every moment.
Birthdays have never been a really big thing with me, Maybe b/c I have a Christmas B day and so much else is going on? Not sure b/c my kids are BIG Bday people! I love Mother’s Day best and Easter and of course, Christmas!
Anyway, as far as the milestone B days go, I really just try to not think of them, as I stay in shape, eat right (more or less) and I’m fairly active and generally enjoy life. My dogs have kept me younger, I think. Two furkids but sadly, now just one I did pick a cute “grandma name” as so many I know have. That helps but I ended up a young grandmother first time (I burned the candle at both ends with an older teen daughter and a new baby grand.) I am now up to three! but pretty sure that’s it. The final grands number!
It may help that I have an older husband. I think if he were my junior by any amount at all, age would bother me more!
I don’t do the spas or the treatments but practice decent skin care (try to!) and I think attitude is everything and my attitude is at LEAST 10-15 (20?) years younger than my chronological age. AT LEAST!
I hit the 75 mile stone and I must say I hate it!!! I don’t feel that old at all. I still think and act like I’m 40. There are some challenges, like various aches and pains that come with age, but basically I’m in great shape, exercise, eat well and I still love to shop both for my home and clothes! So many friends my age have stopped shopping because the they just don’t need things. for me I don’t need things either, but I still love nice things and it keeps me current in my looks and my home, and brings me joy. Just take care of yourself and you will have many more years of fun. It is just a number ,but we don’t have to like or act like the number!
Every birthday changes us in some way. I’m over 80. I think one of the challenges is that your mind, if you are lucky, remains young and you think you can do all the things you did at an earlier age. You can get away with it for a while but when you hit 80 you realize you have to slow down somewhat. After being multitasked for so long, that is the challenge for me. If you do one thing at a time life becomes less complicated. But, you have to keep reminding yourself. Best to take one day at a time and live life to the fullest, as you are able. Every age has its delights. Older, generally wiser. You can watch the younger people and enjoy how they tackle their challenges. Don’t fret. Just enjoy.
Oh, this post hit home for me! I am turning 60 in March and will be welcoming our first grandchild in August-I can’t wait! This milestone birthday has really hit me-like you I do not feel “this number” and feel very blessed to be here, healthy, surrounded with family, friends and a full life-never taken for granted. Go to Montana-one of the most most beautiful places and a favorite of mine! Enjoy this time of life and ALL that it has to offer!
You feel 40 because these days 60 is the new 40! 🤣 I turned 71 this year and feel 50. I think aging is different now and with maintaining our health and skin we don’t age as quickly physically. 70 was the hardest for me – just couldn’t believe it but it will drive you crazy to think about. It really is only a number and I was reminded that if I had my health and youthful-ish looks and I can still do what I want to do, I need to be grateful rather than complaining about where I am on the age scale. Of course, they’re right and I’m trying. But it’s hard! We just need to change our mindset, I guess.
I’m 62 and a breast cancer survivor. Every single day is a gift. I don’t feel a day over 35 in my head, but sometimes the body disagrees a little! I am grateful for each day and every birthday. I too, welcomed a first grandchild just 3 months ago and am welcoming our second in the spring. Life waits for no one. Live every day and love the people in your life. My grandmother lived till almost 99 and her secret was to keep moving! Happy big 60 to you! Onward!!
Turning 60 is a big one, but do reflect that as a new grandmother you are indeed so young. Thinking back to how we felt looking at how old we thought our grandmothers were. Every age is a blessing. To me, I think 35ish, but the mirror definitely sees someone else. Enjoy this journey and look back at all you have accomplished and the great triumphs that still await.
I was stressing about my big 60 last February. We had an exciting trip planned and I did a glow up and was all ready. It was fantastic and the next day I said, “ I don’t feel any different, I feel like forty!” So sixty must be the new forty!
All the best to you!
Tina, I also very recently had a milestone Birthday. I have 10 years on you . I turned 70. I feel the same way as you I feel 40 as well! I remember when I viewed 70 yr olds as OLD! Well I am like you I have to practice what I preach as well! It is just a number! I think the 60s and 70s are the new 40 and 50s Right! People are living much longer as long as we take care of ourselves. I think the secret is staying active. I have 2 sisters younger than me and I run circles around both of them. They sit all the time in their easy chair! I would loose my mind. I continue to work and do what I love to do. I decorated 12 houses this yr for Christmas. That’s it the secret no doubt is to stay busy and active. I hope this next yr brings you more joy and happiness than you can stand ! Enjoy that grandson he is so beautiful ! You will be 70 very quickly I promise! I always enjoy your posts and recipes. Especially the Seven On Sunday! Thank you for sharing this post! Liane From Nashville !
I turned 68 in December but I don’t know what that number feels like. I’ve never been concerned with getting older except I pray I stay healthy and active. I’m a positive and happy person and do whatever I like, which is shopping and decorating. I just say live every day like it’s your last but live for God on your journey.
Hold on to your hat and enjoy ! I found out I was going to be a grandmother on my 50th birthday and that baby is graduating high school in May. Time flies, I keep asking how I got to 68 so fast. Take care and stay healthy!
I turned 68 last year and it’s starting to sink in I will be 70 in a few years! It’s hard to wrap my head around the number, but I am blessed to be alive and enjoy our new granddaughter! As the saying goes” it’s a privilege denied by many”! When you think of friends or people you hear about who died in their 20’s,30’s 40’s 50’s, and didn’t get to see their children get married, be a grandparent or just experience all those years of living, it really makes me appreciate my birthday every year! Happy Birthday to you!
Tina,
I’m 70. I have never felt my age. I’m active but not fanatical. My parents ate what was in season and it was fresh, healthy and included red meat. It’s what myself husband and before married sons ate at home but not fanatical. I don’t drink alcohol or smoke. Keep using the same moisturizer, wash face with same soap and keep my hair clean, blonde and mid-length. Yes, I’m sad to see skiing and horseback riding out of my life.. I never thought I would not have a horse in my life.. Yet, my 6 grandchildren fill the void and light up my world.. I’d never say, trying to stay young, it’s just that I feel good.. Of course, aches and pains but don’t complain. Thank God for every moment.
Hi Tina,
When I was turning 60, I went around telling everyone that I was 59. I had a really hard time even saying I was 60. Then I adjusted, and like you became a grandmother. I was so busy with life, that my 60’s flew by. I think it was the fastest decade. Now I’m 70 and learning to embrace every day. I’m even busier with four grandchildren, my husband, travel, two homes and loving every bit of all of it. Things change, nothing stays the same, friendships come and go, but you just learn to love what matters most. Health, family, friends, and true love! Enjoy this special decade.
Hi Tina, don’t comment often but felt the need today! First, when I saw your instagram post about your “big birthday’ I was shocked that you are 60. You look much much younger. So there’s that. Plus you are a grandmother, a very young one. You have a lot to celebrate and be proud of, a thriving business, three grown kids, a grandchild, beautiful homes, your health. Life is good!
I am 58 and through hardships of others in my life, I have learned to be super mindful of every minute, hour, day I am given. We lost 3 friends and family members in the last year all too young. Talk about a wake up call. I mediate every morning for 10 minutes and keep a gratitude journal which I fill in most days. I have 2 kids, both in college and I am just finding myself again. I started working part time for a local interior design company and am loving it. I took up tennis and golf again. My husband and I vowed to take two big trips a year and lots of little weekend getaways in between.
Our biggest change is that we are selling our very large home where our kids were raised and bought a place in Jackson Hole and will downsize to a smaller home in the Atlanta area. We are so excited about this big lifestyle change and look forward to creating many good memories with our kids and their future families.
All this to say, no one is guaranteed tomorrow, next year or next year. We are merely passing through in this life. If we look at it that way, we tend to do things instead of talk about them. Sometimes we cannot do them right away but we can plan for them, and that alone is part of the fun. Our 2 house new lifestyle is something we have been planning for 8 years (once the twins left for college) and its finally happening. I am a big believer in manifestation. 60 in today’s world is young, and your energy appears to be that of most 30 year olds! Whatever you are doing, keep on doing..it’s working!
It’s nice to know you’re not alone. I’m 76 and just retired from my second career. Staging house’s! Keeping active is my answer to staying vital. Happy Birthday to you, stay healthy and happy and keep doing what you’re doing!.
Hello dearest Tina
Well I am with you all the way. I may be your latest ( and one of the most devoted) readers to share this birthday as I turned 60 only last weekend. Tina you look absolutely beautiful, so hopefully we are a fine vintage. I still cant believe I am 60 either, but can only say am truly grateful for my good health, and the many blessings I have in life.
It’s a life I had to gradually rebuild when I returned to England alone after living between here and Italy with my partner of many years, separating from him in my late 40s, 2012. Aside from losing a parent ( for me, my Dad ) having to start over at that stage was probably the only real challenge I have ever faced. It was around that time I started to read your blog Tina and words cannot express how grateful I was. You shared so much beauty, inspiration and positivity, you were a lifeline to me ( my darling friend you still are) I re-started my interior design and event floristry career and put all my love and focus into my home, family and friends. Always helped along by my creativity with flowers, gardening, fashion and probably my first love, music… gradually I got there. Adjusting to living alone wasnt easy, nor turning 50 especially not having had any children of my own. But I have 3 beautiful God children and am close to my brothers, whose grandchildren I share and love like my own.
I am more comfortable now that I can withstand change. I have come to understand this unconventional life has been a rare gift of opportunity to become the best version of myself through being happy with my time filled with people and pastimes I love. I enjoy my work and every part of our world of beautiful creativity. I go often and even alone to the theatre, cinema, opera and as many concerts as possible. From La Traviata to Justin Timberlake, I went to both in the last year.
I absolutely dont feel my age at all, probably I feel more like Im still 40. I may look older so Im thinking some fillers? but mostly I just eat very healthily, take a good 15 supplements a day, walk, dance, anything to keep active. I do try to dress nicely and wear make up and jewellery each day, somehow it makes me feel better.
Turning 60, I have to say that the anticipation of it being a life ‘deadline’ was hardest, and how to celebrate in the depth of an English winter. I decided to give a party in the summer ( and enjoying the planning with lots of your inspiration Tina)
I want it to be as fun, fabulous and glamorous as possible, a real celebration of life not just for me but to create wonderful memories for family and friends. So it’s going to be 60 and sparkling.
The best part of being older is being wiser and knowing you must make the most of every day. As your other reader put it so well ‘ carpe diem, baby’ I love that. I think your grandson is so gorgeous, little Philip. He will bring you more and more joy as time goes on Tina, as will all of your family. You will embrace this next decade together.
My Dad just used to say to me ‘ count your blessings’ so they are my words to live by
Sending fondest love
Sallyxxx
Happy Birthday Tina.
I recently turned 70. And I have been in denial every day since. I’m truly freaked out ! Having more years behind you then going forward is unsettling for me. In almost every way I’m the same person I’ve been for many many years. Same interest, still motivated, still making all kinds of plans for this or that. Currently in the middle of a home renovation. I don’t feel seventy. I’m told frequently that I look 10 years younger than I am. I too have three sons. They have given my husband and I 6 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter, Romelia. I look in her beautiful sweet 4-month-old face with amazment. I’m a great-grandmother …Wow ! The old saying, life is short, could not be truer. I tell my children all the time, soak in everyday, for this time in the future will be… the good old days !! I honestly don’t see a time when I will settle into this 70 thing. However, I guess I better start trying really hard, because time keeps moving forward.
Your grandson is adorable. Thanks for sharing.
Naomi Frost-Jones
I have a large clock in the hallway between the garage and the kitchen, so I see it multiple times a day. On the face of the clock, I had these words inscribed: “Some people are old at 18, and some are young at 90…time is a concept that humans created.”
I turned 74 just a week ago, and I’m still going strong. I own a marketing company, and this week, I received an offer that could boost its growth by 25%. Retirement isn’t on my radar—working and connecting with people keep me energized and youthful. To me, age is just a number.
Loved your post, Tina. I always say that biological age is more important than chronological age and since you feel like you’re 40, than that’s the age you have.
True, it’s time we practice what we preach about “age being just a number” and start celebrating our birthdays, period, not even mention a number.
I just turned 49 last week and the milestone being around the corner,
I also relate to the thoughts you shared. I’m also the mother of a 5 1/2 yrs old beautiful boy (our miracle baby) and the thought of being strong and around for him for many years probably keeps me young in spirit. I feel great and at least 10 yrs younger.
Happy Belated Birthday, Tina! Wishing you time for yourself and lots of energy and joy in 2025.
With Love,
Ramona