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<\/a><\/p>\nI also said I will include a few recipes, my tried and true tips and of course many visuals. So let’s get started, and here are some of the questions that were asked more than once. Sit down with an extra cup of coffee (or wine) as there is a lot to share today-<\/p>\n
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One thing MANY of you asked about was timing\/scheduling and how to execute meals while playing hostess? Excellent question. So I normally do have a woman who helps me behind the scenes. She is in the kitchen and I will have gone over with her what needs to be done as we begin a sit down to dinner.<\/p>\n I have not always had someone and there are times I am doing this solo, if we are a small group as an example.\u00a0 In that case, I will curtail my meal to be one that requires minimal fussing. It might be a dish that bakes in the oven and that can easily be kept warm as opposed to something like a piece of delicate fish that has to be cooked minutes before serving.<\/p>\n So, when I do not have a helper, I will plan for appetizers that are room temp, so that I can sit and enjoy the hour or so before dinner with my guests. I will of course have to. make a few trips to the kitchen to check on things but again, I will be preparing something that has cooked and is being kept warm in the oven. Meals that require last minute tending do not ideally work well as it would mean me being back and forth non stop.<\/p>\n Plus I like my kitchen to look spic and span and let’s face it, when you are putting a meal together for several people, things are going to be well…….all over the place!<\/p>\n A lot of you asked how to handle yourself when other people offer to get up and help or actually follow you into the kitchen. Full disclosure? This is my pet peeve. I cannot stand when people follow me into the kitchen. Sorry, I know it sounds harsh and like I am a meanie (I am not I promise)\u00a0 but I have a method as to how things get done and any interruption throws me off.<\/p>\n Suddenly you are forced to put on a smile and socialize while trying to put your dinner together. No thanks. I politely tell my guests I would “much rather you sit and enjoy yourself” and if needed I give my husband the evil eye which means “pour them another glass of wine NOW”!!!! I have found that having a small set up designated area for drinks tends to pull people in that direction (works like a charm).<\/p>\n If the weather is nice, we will set up drinks\/appetizers outside and if not it’s inside. I really think if you say it firmly enough (with a smile) you can get your point across. You can say what I said above or even “I have it all covered and honestly work best on my own, but thank you, please sit and enjoy another glass of wine”. At that point you excuse yourself and get busy! I know not everyone will agree but this is just how I operate best:)<\/p>\n I do not use a table pad. I use either place mats or a tablecloth. Not a fan of pads honestly, I have been lucky as my table (almost 10 years old) still looks great. Occasionally I might find a small scratch, and will try to buff it out, but nothing I cannot live without. I don’t personally like the look of a table pad. If I am placing a hot dish I will use a pretty and decorative trivet\u00a0 sometimes with a linen napkin draped over it.<\/p>\n Sometimes I will use a tablecloth and place mats there are no hard and fast rules-<\/p>\n And sometimes the occasion calls for a beautiful print of some sort-<\/p>\n But my usual is a crisp white linen place mat on the gleaming wood table:)<\/p>\n I mostly will plate the salads in the kitchen then serve. It is easier this way. If we are outside and having a casual meal, I will normally bring the salad bowl outside and dress it out there as well then serve but for more formal dining, when we are indoors I will plate the salad or whatever we are having as an appetizer (often soup in colder months) in the kitchen and bring out right before I call my guests in.<\/p>\n Many of you also asked if I tend to do a sit down dinner or a buffet. Really depends. Let’s say I am having 6-8 over for dinner and I have someone to help me. I will do a plated salad and a sit down dinner where we will plate the dinner in the kitchen and bring it out. If I do not have help, I likely won’t do that and will set up a buffet of some sort.<\/p>\n I will either have a few dishes that will be placed on the dining table or sometimes I will pull over a smaller round table we have in the foyer and put a tablecloth on it, and have that as as small serving table. I like both honestly, buffet to me is a little easier in that people can get up and easily help themselves to more and it’s less back and forth. That said, I must say, I do love the look and elegance ofa sit down dinner and come to think of it, have not done on in a long time. Humm……..maybe it’s time:)<\/p>\n So many ways! I love using them for individual crudites, maybe a spinach dip or hummus with vegetables and\/or pita chips on top. Not only does it look very “cater-ish” (a new word)! but makes serving easy peasy.<\/p>\n Some asked if I put something like plastic\u00a0 in them first. No, I do not. Just wash them out well right after use and they will be just fine. I normally use the small size for serving appetizers. I will also sometimes use the larger sizes to make a big appetizer tray and fill hem with everything from chips to nuts, to pretzels and dips. They also make great “holders” for everything from utensils to make up brushes.\u00a0 People always ooh and ahh over the presentation:)<\/p>\n Loved this setup, we were having friends over to watch the US Open finals- used assorted sizes and styles of the mint juleps to hold hummus, nuts, pretzel mixes, veges for dipping, guacamole the sky is the limit! Shown here on my favorite Chippendale serving tray<\/p>\n Always elegant to serve as an individual appetizer<\/p>\n Love them to hold utensils too!<\/p>\n Another luncheon where I served these with a spinach dip and veges<\/p>\n Yes, a dish you can prepare ahead of time is a lifesaver. It will also be a “go to” if I do not have any back up help. One dish\u00a0 I like making ahead of time,\u00a0 that is so easy is the dill salmon. I will marinate this either the night before or that morning. You literally keep it in the fridge until you are ready to put it in the oven. About 10 minutes from the finish time, I turn the oven off, cover it really well with aluminum and let it rest until ready to serve. Even at room temp, it is delicious. (also great for a luncheon). Super easy and quite pretty!<\/p>\n Also if you want a side that is not only pretty but one that can be prepared ahead of time and kept at room temp, it is the scalloped potatoes below. Looks very pretty and elegant and come on, who doesn’t love a scalloped potato! Once again this can be fully cooked, then covered really well until time of serving, it is one of those no fuss kinds of dishes.<\/p>\n I will be focusing on good menu\/dinner ideas for small groups for the\u00a0 next post, so will include recipes for both of these at that time…….promise!<\/p>\n You need<\/em> music plain and simple, it just sets a tone. I love so many different genres, and listen to almost all. When we are having people over, though I want something subtle, that has a “feel good” vibe. For indoors, always some kind of jazz, smooth jazz and a few favorites are from our Pandora radio,\u00a0 Also. love a great flamenco soundtrack, something so soothing about the guitar. Pandora has a station I think called Worldbeat that is fantastic.<\/p>\n For outdoors we tend to play something slightly more upbeat, like a bossa nova which is a favorite and we enjoy reggae.\u00a0 We play this kind of music outside all summer long, guests or no guests.\u00a0 I also love Brazilian music and Spanish, it’s so warm and upbeat. There are several\u00a0 International stations on Pandora , one being Worldbeat and many reggae stations.\u00a0 Another on Pandora is called Beach Bar lounge is fun<\/p>\n \n As I alluded to last time, organization is really key here. Everything is laid out the morning of for a dinner, small or large. My table is set and I will put out all my empty dishes, sometimes with small sticky’s handwritten with what will go on that platter.<\/p>\n I like no fuss appetizers, things you can set out, do not need to worry about. I will occasionally make something that requires going in the oven and serve right when done, but honestly i do it less and less. Who needs the extra aggravation. My brushetta is a year round hit, everyone always loves it. When people come to my home in the fall or winter, my baked brie is expected. So I am including both of these super easy to make appetizers below.<\/p>\n \n My brushetta (this recipe would be good to serve about 6-8 guests) if you have another appetizer<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n In a bowl add finely chopped tomato, 3\/4 of your basil (finely chopped, I add a lot), the onion and garlic. Season well with sea salt and ground pepper. Add your olive oil. You can marinate this a few hours in advance, but not more than 2-3 as it could get soggy.<\/p>\n Take your sliced baguette, and drizzle with olive oil once laid in a baking pan. Put in preheated oven (set st 350) and bake for about 6-7 minutes. Do not fret if its too crunchy, once you add the brushetta, it instantly softens the bread.\u00a0 Carefully scoop the brushetta mixture over each slice, once done I add thinly sliced fresh basil over each. Sometimes I mix in fresh mozzarella as well, or may do half this way. So good!\u00a0 **You can make ahead of time ( same day, would not do it the day before)<\/p>\n Always an elegant crowd pleaser<\/p>\n Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Throw in about 5 lemon slices with your shrimp once boiling. Cook for about 4-5 minutes to until pink and slightly firm to the touch (remember they will cook a bit once you put them through the colander) Put aside in a dish and add fresh lemon, lightly toss.<\/p>\n In a separate bowl add the container of cocktail sauce, add about 1-2 TBSP (depends how much tang you want) to the sauce and squeeze fresh lemon, add a dash of chili powder and dash of saltl. Mix well and refrigerate. Add crushed ice to your favorite large bowl or serving dish. Don’t have crushed ice? Use a blender or chopper, easy! Only put this out right as you are ready to serve as no one likes warm shrimp and cocktail sauce!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n These are sooooo good. Very savory inside of a delicious, buttery light puff pastry. Always a hit!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n I also like the idea of a signature cocktail. Some may not go for it and opt for a glass of wine but most do, and they normally love it. It is a nice way to welcome guests when they come in to have a round of s special drink on a pretty silver tray.\u00a0 Even if something simple like champagne with a splash of cranberry and berries with mint, it is an extra added detail plus it looks pretty! Then you can continue with wine for dinner…..<\/p>\n \n Click here for chargers<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n Click here for mini table lamps<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n Click here for mint juleps<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n Click here for flatware<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n _________________________________<\/p>\n And that is a wrap on this second chapter of The Entertaining Diaries. Hope you enjoyed it, putting this together was a lot of fun as it allowed me to go down memory lane and reminisce about past enjoyable and memorable gatherings. The next chapter I will focus on great dinner ideas\/menus for smaller groups.<\/p>\n So,\u00a0 now you get to ask your<\/em> questions for next time, I will do my best to get to those still unanswered as well as address new ones. You can ask your question in the comment section. Thanks for stopping in and sharing this fun new series with me. Your ideas and tried and true tips are also welcome so please by all means, share!<\/p>\n Wishing everyone a wonderful day, until next time………<\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a> <\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n\n
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